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    Hello, I can relate to what you are going through. I am going through a major separation, too, and my mate will no longer speak to me. We were together 2 years, which doesn't seem like a lot after you speak of 18 years of marraige, but we were incredibly close. I believe he still loves me but he found a woman on the internet, 10 years younger than he, and started dating her. He is going through a midlife crisis, I am sure of it, but he isn't in the habit of dealing with his demons, and instead, he dumped the only person who ever understood him. I miss him every single moment of the day and even though I try to go on without him, I can't bear the thought of it. It has been a difficult and horrendous winter and all I do is think of him, even as I am trying to go on with my life. I feel for what you are going through. If you would like to talk about it with another woman who understands, you can write to me at ferronia at aol dot com. Thanks. Blessings, Yohanna

    April 3, 2008
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    sweetie, our stories are almost exactly similar-- i just joined last night and hope i am doing this correctly- my husband of 18yrs as well has been gone 3 weeks--his severe alcholism/depression/then insanity at the end forced a breakup - we are communicating at phone's length but i am sure it is ended - i have accepted all of that but i am "lost at sea" with what to do with myself- he will not take responsibility for trying to get better and over 11 years he now had 5grand mal seizures in one day and on good days he is so confused and hallucinates horribly that for my safety and our 15 daughters' - separation is the only option - and over the years i have stuck around thinking it will get better- it just got worse and worse - (of course, forget about any relations of any kind for many, many years) i am 44, Christian and feel more comfortable with spiritual as opposed to organized religion, this all is just 3 weeks old to me and i would love you to contact - don't be shy - i am new too to the community and the sudden changes in my like are kind of freaking me out sometimes- i have taken a few vacation days so i will be available CINCI EMAIL ME AND MAYBE THEN WE COULD EVEN TALK -YOU ARE ONLY THE SECOND PERSON I HAVE REACHED OUT TO AND OUR STORIES MATCH -WE MUST HELP EACH OTHER I FEEL -THIS WAY WE CAN GO ON ..KATTCRAZY

    February 13, 2008
    8:09 PM
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