You lost your little unborn "meat loaf" on Sunday. I called the pre-born "meat loaf" with affection. But for whatever reason the pre-born baby died and Will is devastated. I asked the Universe (or whomever) to send a shaman to talk with my son. Just today a pastor my son works with spoke with him about his loss. Pastors and shamans are similar enough. I may not have agreed with everthing the man said but if my son was in any way comforted that is all that matters!