Hey there, blueberryangel. I've seen you around the forums, and I admire your ability to see both sides of a situation. I think the idea behind your group, Phoenix Rising, is an important one. Briefly: We each develop our own perspectives based on differences in how we perceive and interact with our environment. Who's to say that one person's perspective is "correct," and another's is not? One's perceptions should not be taken with certainty. I suspect that you have more than a handful of important lessons up your sleeve, just waiting to be shared with us. Rock on! - Korvayer