Often I ask myself what is the most loving thing to do . Mother's Day is close by and there are different things we could be doing .There are some coming here from 500 miles away . And our daughter is  about two hours away . There is a big celebration the day before Mother's Day . We will all meet then except for the daughter who no longer drives because of ongoing health problems .  We will be two days with the visitors . If we decide to visit our daughter will they be offended ?  I hope not as it is really up to us

 I suppose I am writing this out  to see how I really feel about it . I know what the other members of this family think . So it's Mother's Day can mom say what she thinks ?