My son is gone to bed , my husband is at the cottage and I am a bit sad . Talked to my daughter today and didn't have to yell for her to hear me . They bought a cell phone it was about time because Bell Canada has given them problems for almost a year now . they have to fix the line and they can't do it just yet
So why am I sad ? It's a long story I will write a condensed version . My son and I are quite close . He has moved in with us because he can no longer look after his basic needs . I am on 24/7.The neuropathy in his hands is very painful . My husband is telling me I am doing way too much for him to let him struggle . In my way of thinking he is struggling enough . He is a labile diabetic and has had many insulin reactions over the years . Why he thinks he should have to struggle more is beyond me .. He is always right in his opinion so I do my best not to incite anything . This is the first time I say this to him in all the years we have been married . We have been married 45 years . I sort of let him have it because I am tired of him saying our son is lazy etc  Ok Loebe,I know your parents didn't look after your basic needs and I know you struggled  is that the reason you think our son has to keep struggling ?  He didn't answer and left to go outside . Now hopefully this will not be brought up again