About Me:
I first wandered onto Beliefnet in 2000 when an article was recommended by a friend. I joined (under a different user name) and was immediately hooked. Going through a difficult separation and being able to share on the Divorce board with others going through similar circumstances. Ultimately there was a reconciliation in my marriage, and we have been healing and growing in love and intimacy ever since (not without a few speed bumps, which are part of the journey).
I began hosting the Divorce & Separation Board on the old Beliefnet a few years ago and am continuing with the Divorce Board on the new (& improved) Beliefnet.
I am blessed with having (virtually) met and interacted with so many great people here over the years! I am awed and humbled by the fearlessness of members in sharing their thoughts and feelings, even when they are difficult and painful. Beliefnet is indeed a tangible manifestation of God's grace!
This is Latoya. To answer your question about my marriage God stepped in. He's dealing with me day by day. I have learned and still in the process of learning to forgive. my friend I am at peace. The si tuation doesn't bother me as much anymore. I learned it wasn't my fault, i had to forgive them because i want god to forgive me. Besides they have to answer for their deceitfulness not me. I had to stop punishing myself, by think about what happened in the past and think about my future. Honestly the female isn't worth the space in my mind. God willing we will be alright. Thanks LaToya
Hi Arnie
LaToyaThis is Latoya. To answer your question about my marriage God stepped in. He's dealing with me day by day. I have learned and still in the process of learning to forgive. my friend I am at peace. The si tuation doesn't bother me as much anymore. I learned it wasn't my fault, i had to forgive them because i want god to forgive me. Besides they have to answer for their deceitfulness not me. I had to stop punishing myself, by think about what happened in the past and think about my future. Honestly the female isn't worth the space in my mind. God willing we will be alright. Thanks LaToya
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