I just posted on your discussion thread...I think it is a pretty important issue, and hope that you will find my advise very helpful. Be well...

Hi Lisa, Many of us posted on ytour topic. it would be nice to hear from you, about what you are thinking about your own topic. You seemed to have disappeared. We would like to hear if you've decided what you are going to do.I hope you are ok. I willl look for your post under your topic. Suzy

hi hun, I posted to your thread, i dont mean to sound so negative, however i have been there and if i can just make you trust yourself on this one.... please "when someone shows you who they really are, believe them" cant remember who said it but i wish i had heard it before i met my overbearing shortfused man. he showed me that side but i thought he would never show our children that or try to control me like he did. I'm sorry i am rambling. Just trust yourself!! christy